WHO THINKS MORE ABOUT SEX?
What does biology tells us?
Well, the first thing it tells us is that men and women are different. Who would have guessed it, right? Well, despite being rather obvious for the most of you, trust me, it is not the same for everybody. So, I had to mention it. Now, regarding the actual differences, they are neither few, nor small.
Fortunately, unlike other types of mammals and animals, human beings don’t have mating seasons. It would have been extremely sad to have to wait for our women to reach the mating season before we could have some of that juicy pussy. So, at least we don’t have to worry about that.
What’s left is the eternal dispute between men and women, regarding their sexual desires. Sure, we all know women are ethereal creatures, who sometimes allow us this simple pleasure of fucking them. They don’t have to, but they choose to, in the same manner you would pet a stray dog.
Regarding men
Whether you know it or not, men have a pretty high-up sexual appetite. I know, this may come as a surprise for you. Well, it seems like men think about sex a lot of times during one day alone. In theory, there are few cases when they only do it less than 5-6 times every hour. And, if you are to analyze that from an evolutionary stance, it makes sense. We are built in such a way that we need to be sexually available pretty much 24/7.
That is because you never know when the opportunity to spread your genes will arise. Sure, this is pretty much not the case today anymore, when we have plenty of women to spread our seed among. However, our brains haven’t got to come to date yet, because of the rapid social changes we have been through. I mean, think about the fact that about 20.000 years ago we were still fighting with the Neanderthals for survival. And 20.000 years are but a spec of time when compared to the over 4 billion years that have passed since the emergence of the first life form on Earth.
So, nowadays, we, men, are still driven by our primitive sexual instincts, without even realizing it. It is purely a hormonal and cerebral behavior we cannot control. All we can control are our actions, not our thoughts or feelings. And because, once upon a time, this type of behavior was ensuring our chances of spreading our genes, our brains force us to function within the same parameters, despite the immense social changes we have been through.
Regarding women
This is things get a little bit more confusing. Some claim that women think about sex less than men, while others claim the opposite. In reality, truth is somewhere in the middle, although it does seem to steer heavily towards the latter – women are at least as equally lustful as men are.
Why isn’t this obvious? Well, I thought it is obvious – it all comes from how we function socially. More precisely, it is men who wear the burden of initiative. Women are the receptors on the other end, which is to say they are the ones that need to be impressed. As a result, even if they are as lustful as men are, they won’t admit that. You need to earn that truth, not gain it free of charge.
Women function differently because they are different. Unlike men, they do find offense in being classified as slutty. With men, things are not as drastic. Being promiscuous, as a men, is being seen as a quality, whereas it is considered a degradation when the same tag is being applied to women. And we can claim all day that this is a modern social construct, when we know for a fact that it is, actually, as old as human beings.
Regarding sexual games
Sexual games have multiple forms. One of its form involves women playing the “Can’t touch this!” role. And it completely makes sense. Think about it, what woman seems more interesting and inviting to you, the whore or the one who seems to be out of your league? More specifically put, with which of them you tend to have sexual fantasies? Yea, that’s what I thought, motherfucker.
However, don’t let yourself be fooled, because their hard-to-get attitude actually speaks quite a lot about what the woman’s underlying intentions are. Not all women do it, but those that do have the same basic intentions – attracting the attention of men. I mean, why else would they be doing it?
So, as a man, how are you supposed to deal with the situation? Well, first thing you must do is know what you are dealing with. After that, well, you just adapt to that particular situation. Obviously, I don’t have the editorial space to deal with that aspect, but, as a side note – There is no such thing as an impenetrable woman.
The sex dilemma
How often should you have sex? How often do women want it and how often is too often for men? These questions don’t really have a straightforward answer. As a general idea, a couple newly formed with have more sex than a long-term one, in the same way younger people have more sex than older ones.
But, as a general idea, there is no such thing as an objective answer. Most men function just like you and me, so there is no need for you to feel inferior or something. Sure, there are exceptions. There are men who fuck every day, like they are on fucking batteries. But they are the exceptions, not the norm.
As an addition to that, the more often you fuck, the duller the entire experience becomes. Rare and fine, I always say. As a final note, you should reach to a consensus with your woman. You shouldn’t force the situation, but only have sex as often as you feel like it.
