WHAT MAKES WOMEN BEAUTIFUL
Simplicity and decency
Men have different beauty standards when it comes to women but the middle ground remains the same. Beauty and physical attractiveness imply a normal-to-supple body, rich forms, and preferably, a face that doesn’t resemble that of an ox. Of course, there are those men who stay together with overweight whale-like women whose face demands brutal mauling, but they have low standards.
We’re talking about a man who respects himself, someone with dignity and superior standards for his woman. Generally, she doesn’t even have to have the body of a porn star to be attractive. However, the most important thing regarding feminine beauty is the aestheticism, their care for themselves. This is where hygiene falls into, as well.
The truth is, most men want a decent, understand, and simple woman, and when it comes to looks, their standards aren’t that high. This is because the looks only matter during the initial attraction phase. Once you get to know the other person, the psychological aspects become much more important than looks. You can only say you love a woman if you mean her psychological presence, not necessarily her physique.
Say no to excesses
In most cases, a man will not feel physically attracted to an overly fat or overly thin woman, for obvious reasons. One makes food excesses, the other diet excesses, and both are abnormal and unattractive. As a woman, you need to fall in under the reasonable category, at the very least. If you can enhance your beauty an attractiveness, you’re free to do it.
However, in order to attract a man’s attention, you need to know what most men like. And most men aren’t attracted to fat cows or anorexic women, no matter how unfair you think it is if you’re either of them. You have two choices to make now – either follow your principles and stay fat or anorexic but you won’t have much success with men, or you become a normal human being.
Us, men, we are pretty simple when it comes to women. We don’t want excellence or perfection. We’re content with physical reasonableness. Indeed, we’d want our ideal woman to be beautiful beyond compare and to look like a goddess but in the end, we’d rather be persuaded by a woman’s personality than her looks. We’d surely want to fuck that dream woman but we wouldn’t necessarily want to live alongside her.
When it comes to a relationship, all these desires go unseen when confronted with the feeling of love. Once we start loving a woman, we ignore the fact that her bra size isn’t quite what we’d imagined or that she doesn’t have a sexy ass. Before this, the animal instincts and the sexual desires had their word but now, our inner voice comes from love.
The difference between sex and love
A woman can be beautiful in two ways – sexually and emotionally. Far from me to deny that men aren’t attracted to women sexually, at least in the beginning. We all have erotic dreams that we keep locked up in a corner of our mind, and which we’d like to unleash on our ideal feminine specimen. However, these carnal desires have almost nothing to do with the emotional aspect.
A relationship revolves around emotions primarily, on a feeling of familiarity and acceptance of the other, rather than on raw sex. Indeed, sex plays a most important part in peppering a relationship and in manifesting those emotions. However, at the level of attraction between men and women, sex has fewer things to say than emotions and love.
Therefore, it’s not the looks that make a woman beautiful, not necessarily, as much as her reasonableness and normality. Her personality and character are much more vital in this sense. For instance, a man would rather break up with a stubborn and conflicting woman than one with less desirable boobs. For a relationship to become stable and enduring, the behavior and attitude of the woman you love matters much more than her looks.
Emotions versus carnal desires
Both men and women have sexual fantasies that they can’t put into practice. Most of us would have to scuffle about in the sheets with the ideal woman. These carnal pleasures often survive in a relationship but we no longer emphasize their importance. They aren’t as important once we satisfy our emotional needs.
What makes a woman beautiful and perfect as a partner is no her physical attractiveness, but her psychological compatibility. What matters are common goals and interests, similar principles, and most importantly, if you can live together in the same space for prolonged periods. Few things are as important as mutual understanding in a relationship, the possibility to live together by accepting each other’s mistakes and downsides.
Now you know what makes a woman beautiful and, most importantly, the fact that beauty can be interpreted in various ways. It doesn’t necessarily mean her physical attractiveness or enviable ass; rather, her psychological compatibility to you is more important. As long as she has a reasonable and normal physique, she takes care of her, any woman can be beautiful, even if there are different grades of beauty.
Some women are more beautiful than others but this is a permanently valid thing. Just as there are more intelligent guys than you, there are also more beautiful women than any woman in this world. No matter what you do, there will always be someone superior to you, which means that you don’t have to compare yourself to others. It’s a waste of time, and the breeder of jealousy, grief, and sadness.
It brings nothing of value to your life if you compare yourself to someone more beautiful or more intelligent. If you can’t change anything about it, then you should just ignore it. This applies to women in particular, who are more sensitive and susceptible to this mentality. As men, we don’t want perfection coming from a woman, not necessarily. We can simply suit our needs with a reasonable-looking woman that understands our needs.
