THE MYTH OF THE SENSITIVE MAN
What is the sensitive man?
The sensitive man is a special guy in our society. Romantically speaking, this guy is full of feelings and strong emotions. He’s the type who cries at dramatic movies and who gets sad when he sees a wounded animal. But even more so, he’s the guy who interacts with women on the same emotional level. Is that good? Is it bad? Some inexperienced men might say that this is a good thing for women. They feel good knowing that they can interact with a man on a deeper level. However, reality doesn’t care for feelings or opinions.
Speaking of the myth saying that sensitive men are ideal partners craved by all women, that’s just a myth. Perhaps you’ve heard many women saying that they want a more sensitive partner, someone who can understand their emotions and interact with them emotionally. They’re saying that for one of two reasons – either they’re immature or their current partner is a jackass who has no idea about empathy. The ideal man doesn’t exist, especially not when it comes to sensitive and emotional men. That’s not the ideal man, but a hapless and sad creation of today’s society. I’m referring to all the leftist propaganda about social justice warriors and feminist men.
The feminist men are entirely different monsters created by these social movements. The ideal of the sensitive man is older, though, and it is bred by the blind ignorance of people regarding relationships and social roles. Both sexes have certain social roles to play out. These roles aren’t necessarily defined by sex, but by biology and psychological underpinnings. These underpinnings have been associated with sex, eventually. A woman is more emotional and sentimental, while men are rational, pragmatic, and slightly less emotional and sensitive. A functional relationship is formed when these two types of people come together.
Don’t be fooled by random sayings
Like I was saying, perhaps you’ve heard a few women idolizing sensitive men and their emotions. However, don’t let yourself be fooled by this hogwash. In 9 out of 10 cases, a woman will always prefer having a stable and masculine man beside her. In other words, she’ll prefer a pragmatic, rational, and aggressive man who can protect her from anything that endangers her security. An emotional man would rather behave in a panicked, depressive, and totally dysfunctional manner once problems occur. Solving those problems comes much later on. First, he has to blame the world for his problems and cry a bit. No woman can feel protected or safe next to such a man. She couldn’t feel safe, given his sensitivity and responses in life.
Every healthy woman should idolize the traditional, classic and masculine man. That’s because history has shown us that a man’s masculinity can change the world or destroy it, impacting it greatly. As long as that masculinity is channeled in the right direction, through education and willpower, masculinity becomes a man’s most precious thing. Feelings and emotions are for women, not men. The idea of a perfect couple is based on two people who complete each other. As long as we’re talking about heterosexuals, a woman will always have to be more sentimental than a man. That’s a functional relationship that stands strong against the test of time.
However, we men also have to be loving and understanding with our own partners, while also showcasing our strength in society. Instead of being needlessly empathetic and letting others take our opportunities, we have to be competitive, aggressive, and winners. Masculinity brings a man all his satisfaction and achievements, not empathy and emotions. This was always the truth, the way society built itself, and this is how it will always be. These attempts to demasculinize men and making them emotional are doomed to fail. They’re a doomed social experiment because a man’s biologic and hereditary construction won’t allow that. Moreover, a normal woman will almost always reject an overly emotional and sensitive man.
The myth of sensitive man is dying
The idea of a sensitive and emotional man is wrong to begin with, and anyone can see that. Once you step up to life’s challenges, you’ll notice that men are aggressive, competitive, and unforgiving sometimes. They don’t allow others to have what they have. When a sensitive man comes into contact with this harsh reality, he’ll become depressive. The same happens when he gets rejected by all the women he meets. That’s because sensitivity isn’t something desirable in men. They aren’t meant to be overly sensitive and emotional. A normal man’s biological, psychological, and social construction mustn’t be overturned. The current one is already functional and irreplaceable. If we do replace it, all we do is create dysfunctional abominations elevated to fantasy.
The social role that a normal man must fulfill is already functional. Of course, we mustn’t ignore the other aspects that lead to a man’s character becoming fucked up and ruined. In order for a man to excel through masculinity, he must be well-educated, informed, to have healthy principles, and to be intellectually mature. However, the foundation remains the same. His masculinity and competitiveness need to be elevated and idealized for any man. The world is built by competitive people, not be empathy and feelings. Feelings bring us all together and help us maintain healthy relationships but personal and social achievements result from competitiveness.
We shouldn’t even mention that fact that competitiveness is healthy, as long as it’s maintained within healthy parameters. Men are fueled by this and the inner drive for success, which will always lead to social and personal success. Men who manage to become masculine and competitive will have access to a much broader satisfaction in life. They fulfill their role as men and achieve their maximum potential. The direction of masculinity is the correct one for a man, instead of sensitivity. Alternatively, women are meant to be emotional, to be happy and to be loved by strong men. Most of them feel happy with this social role, and romantic relationships just fine work this way!
