THE MAKINGS OF A LOVER OR MISTRESS
The makings of a lover or mistress
Many might ask themselves such a question in the pursuit of finding methods to become apt to please their partners sexually. While there may be quite a few ways to achieve such feats, most of them have nothing to do with love. There’s a considerate amount of people who believe becoming a good lover or mistress has to do with profound feelings, that connection that somehow gives meaning to a relationship.
Well, all things considered, that’s not always the case. In fact, there seems to be quite a lack of romantic affection in obtaining the laurels for this title. This is generally because of the misconception that being considered a good lover or mistress of it has something to do with actual love.
When it comes to the actual act, it all boils down to how good you are in bed or in some cases, outside of it. Of course, still very much in a sexual way. This might all seem confusing to a few since most people wish to know the ways of pleasing one’s partner out of romantic reasoning. But that’s quite the different topic since this isn’t related to love as much as it is to simple, pure pleasure, which comes from a great deal of different methods. As such, you can’t really pinpoint the ways to offer your partner pleasure without getting to know them properly.
What is a lover?
This title is generally attributed to men who seek to become sexual partners to women that have supposedly already found their soulmate and said their vows to each other. Regardless of the reasoning behind such decisions, a lover is simply a man that for whatever motives, has engaged in more or less a strictly sexual relationship with an already married woman. This means that she’s either bored of her romantic partner or simply wishes to experiment. Either way, it means you might have some competition to consider, and as such you’d better step up your game if you don’t want to lose out on the great sex a pent-up wife has to offer.
All things considered, this is something that tends to be shunned by society, but you don’t really care, do you? If you did, you wouldn’t be in a position to be called someone’s lover. So, what’s left to do other than enjoy the rest of the ride and make most of it while you can? You may stress yourself on how to properly please your partner or you might not care at all. This might all be just a fling meant to occasionally satisfy your sexual needs. It doesn’t really matter why you’re doing this as long as you know where you’re standing in this situation. Therefore, you have nothing to worry about during such events.
What is a mistress?
The concept is the same as before, only this term applies to women that seduce or are seduced by men that are already engage in a marital commitment or romantic relationship. Such an engagement can be built much easier in this context, given the overall libido men tend to be known for. All it could take is a good wink, twirl of the hair and seductive smile to make him yours or at least partly so. However, what you should keep in mind is that these methods don’t always work, especially when it comes to keeping him in your clutches. Some men might be more attached to their wives than you’d think, as ironic as that may sound.
More often than not, men will think of their mistress as a sweet escape from the daily drama at home. Like a guilty pleasure to indulge in or even a plaything that answers to all their whims at a second’s notice. Regardless of the reasons they choose to take a mistress, men enjoy the feeling of power and authority that comes with having such a partner, as dirty and deceptive as it might be to cheat on their wife. For some, that can be even more of a turn on.
Seducing your partner and making them yours
It might seem like all fun and games, which in reality, it pretty much is. But catching someone’s attention and arousing their interest can be quite a difficult task if not taken seriously. This is especially true for men, given the fact that women like playing hard to get, a prey that’s not so easily hunted, yet caught in the end nonetheless. Depending on her situation at home, you may have to consider different approaches.
Either way, most of them include you presenting yourself in an imposing demeanor, well dressed and as charming as can be. Don’t forget that humor is what gets them first and foremost, everything else comes after. Once you get into the bedroom, well that’s when it gets spicy and she’ll put you to hard work. Remember, good guys always come last, and if they can’t, they better be able to do it multiple times!
Now, to the femme fatale topic. Catching a man in your fishnets shouldn’t be all that hard, especially if he’s already looking for someone to relax and get rid of the accumulated stress from home. A sly smile, seducing look and a fatal wink are things all women have a knack for. Now put them to use! Chances are he will be drawn to your allure in a matter of seconds.
Keeping him in your clutches? Now that’s the hard part. Or is it? Men like feeling important, in power and that their authority is being taken seriously. This translates into their sexual life as well, so pleasing him will generally consist in obeying his desires and requests. Although this might not always be the case. Playing hard to get sometimes will keep his interest aroused. But something to be remembered is that they sure do love a slutty girl, especially if she’s slutty only for them. As delusional as that might sound.
