IMPROVE YOUR SEX LIFE BY A FACTOR OF 5

Sex is not like in the movies

If you didn’t know that already, now you do. It is pretty common for men to feel unsatisfied with their sex life and one of the main reasons for that is because sex doesn’t feel like they think it should. Movies represent sex in a glamorous and unrealistic light that many of us can’t see it in reality.

And this is, eventually, one of the biggest disillusions for men, and, consequently, one of the main reasons why they cheat. They get bombarded with so many inspiring and powerfully erotic fantasies that they try to find the same feeling in their daily lives. And the only way to simulate some of that feeling is to cheat. To feel that surplus of adrenaline rushing down their veins. It is the closest they can get.

Women don’t have that problem, because they don’t usually watch porn. Some do, but porn isn’t the thing for women in general, because they don’t get aroused visually. They need other factors to weigh in, like touches and such. Men are simpler animals.

Bring in some diversity

Sure, sex is not like in the movies. But you could improve it significantly, as long as you know what you are doing. In order for that to happen, you need to be able to distinguish facts from fiction. Here are some tips that could help you do just that:

1. Doggy-style doesn’t work

Here is the deal. It may be satisfying for you, but it isn’t for her. The majority of women are not satisfied with doggy-style, which is why they will only accept the position to please you. There are, in this regard, a lot of sexual positions that bring no satisfaction to the women. For men, it doesn’t matter. As long as we get to stick our dicks into that vag, everything goes.

But for women it all comes down to clit play. This is why missionary and cowboy are the default positions for her. Because they allow her to experience clit pleasure like nothing else. Feel free to experiment with different stances, but keep in mind this simple fact.

2. More sex isn’t necessarily better for her

You know how it is said that it doesn’t matter how big is your dick, it only matters how you use it? Cool, because that is a fact. What nobody did, though is how you define “use it”. What does that mean? Just how do you have to use your dick to compensate for its short length?

Well, contrary to popular belief, longer sex doesn’t make for great sex. Sure, the more you can pound her pussy, the greater the chances she will make the most of it. But longer isn’t necessarily better. You also need to know what you are doing, what it takes for her to climax and how to make her feel completely satisfied. All these work hand in hand with longer sex acts, but you need to know the details on top of that.

3. Women don’t really like sucking dick

There goes your unicorn land, am I right? Well, here is the deal. Sucking a dick isn’t really something to be eager about. Do you like eating her muffin? That goes both ways. It is something she has to do, not necessarily something she wants to. But there is one way to inspire her to wait to chew on that dick with a bit more dedication.

Try giving her some oral pleasure first. This way she will feel obliged to do the same and the best thing about it is that you don’t need to make her feel that way. She will impose that on her own herself.

4. Women don’t like cum

In their mouths. Have you tried it? How about you give it a go and tell me how it feels. If you want to see the sex act in a real light, you need to drop your unrealistic expectations. Not everything you see in porn is real, including women’s predisposition towards facial cum shots.

If you have never tasted it, let me inform you that cum usually has a bad taste. How I know that? How about you go fuck yourself? I asked girls who swallowed mine, problems? With the exception of some cases where the dude only eats pineapple for a living, cum will taste bad no matter what. She might do a sacrifice for you, but don’t expect it to become a norm.

5. Anal is overrated

Maybe you were wondering how is it that anal doesn’t feel as good as you thought it would, right? Don’t worry, it has nothing to do with you. Excepting the cases where either you have a small dick or she has a large hole. But outside of these cases, anal will feel pretty dull anyway.

It is not lubricated as the vagina is, it will most probably feel pretty uncomfortable for her and you risk some nasty accidents during it. Involving nasty smells and droppings. Get ready for that, because you can’t smell through your pc monitor, when watching porn. So, you might have an altered perception of reality.

Unrealistic expectations aside, sex can be great

The main problem is that, because of porn, we get to see women as sex tools, only meant to bring us sexual satisfaction. And that is not how you want to see your woman. Because, in order for the sex to become and remain great, you need to take her desires and needs into consideration as well.

She is just the same as you – with various fantasies, needs and sexual particularities that you need to dive into if you want your sex life to make a turn for the better. In this regard, porn does us more bad than good. Because it raises the stake in regards to what we should expect from a woman. Or, should we rather say, it moves the stake into unlikely regions.